Day #11 from stress to success: Surround yourself with succeeders


Welcome to day #11 of the 31-day challenge: from stress to success. Today’s secret to success is:

Surround yourself with succeeders

We tend to surround ourselves with people who are similar to us. You may notice that poor people hang out with poor and rich people with other rich people. Artists spending their time with other artists.

Why is that? Great question. We all have our comfort zones in which we attempt to stay within, it feels safe. Very stressed people don’t feel comfortable to be surrounded by successful energised people.

I invite you to take a step back and look around yourself. Who are the people you hang out with? This is going to tell you a lot about yourself. The longer we surround ourselves with a particular type of people, the more our thinking and feeling processes become like theirs, or vice versa. If we are already stressed and mix and mingle with other stressed out people, you end up having a self-pity party or trauma dramas.

If you don’t like what you see in your life, it is time to look around who you spend your time with. If you realise you become like them and you don’t like it; change it. Seek the successful, inspiring people and surround yourself with them. It will make a huge difference. You will have some revelation of what their secret to success is; it is most likely their mindset.

Action steps:

1. Create an ongoing list starting with 20 people you know who are successful and fulfilled in their lives, those who are doing what they love and those who aren’t just living but truly enjoying life.

2. Read this list daily.

3. Contact and meet these people. Find out how they think, what they feel, how they view life, what they talk about and who they surround themselves with. Tell them about your life goals, and ask them for leads to others who might help you become more fulfilled.

4. Surround yourself with people who are inspired by life; and watch before your very eyes how your own thoughts, actions, and life will change from stress to success.


I associate with success, and I surround myself with inspired life builders.




If you enjoy this challenge and want more juicy information, please join my closed facebook group “Light up your soul” for more valuable free content and future challenges: join here.

If you feel stuck with chronic fatigue because of consistent high stress levels or you feel just drained and unmotivated to go to work every morning, don’t wait and book in your free discovery call with me now. Click here.

Stay tuned for day 12 action steps.